Tuesday, October 4, 2011

爱=自由=责任

素黑，香港著名心性治疗作家及演说家为“爱情”做了一个总结：爱=自由=责任。

“可是，男人会把自由看成是另一回事：放任。自由，不代表不爱回家就不回家，爱玩就玩。你要想想，你的孩子等着你回来教他功课、太太等你回来与你聊天，如果你都不要这些，那你为何要结婚？”

“爱，是离不开责任。没有责任，那不是爱，那是欲望，只是满足自己荷尔蒙的一种表现。真正的爱是：自由、责任和让人感觉舒服。当然，当中会有痛苦，譬如思念的痛苦，但这痛苦是让你走向更好，若走向更差，那就不必要痛苦了。”

-在南洋副刊读到的文章，与各位姐妹分享-
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5 comments:

  1. AnonymousOctober 4, 2011 at 10:08 PM

    wei...ini macam kasi tahu mr lew, mr liew and mr MK sesuai jugak!!!!
    hahahhaha.......
    mama mama, teach me soalan ini!!!!!
    -leng nui giant nen nen khuan-

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  2. AnonymousOctober 4, 2011 at 10:18 PM

    kenapa i mahu type chinese tak boleh pulak???
    actually wa mahu cakap....different path has the different happiness la.....enjoy "dang xia" is the best ya ji mui men!!!!

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  3. AnonymousOctober 5, 2011 at 12:34 AM

    有见地，有深度的一篇文章！ L.O.V.E ng si lu ai wo, wo ai ni jek ley kan dan! 男女之间的爱比起朋友，父母，兄弟姐妹之间的爱复杂多些些咯！ Lancer, bila mau cari your L.O.V.E one?
    -Wa Si 对你爱爱爱不完的Cheong-

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  4. AnonymousOctober 5, 2011 at 1:15 AM

    hahaha...在人海茫茫中寻找我的船头尺.....

    -lancer-

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  5. AnonymousOctober 5, 2011 at 2:53 AM

    I like this author.. I also got keep her articles...

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